Czeslaw Milosz
(source)
Czeslaw Milosz
(source)
“When my husband died, because he was so famous & known for not being a believer, many people would come up to me — it still sometimes happens — & ask me if Carl changed at the end & converted to a belief in an afterlife. They also frequently ask me if I think I will see him again. Carl faced his death with unflagging courage & never sought refuge in illusions. The tragedy was that we knew we would never see each other again. I don’t ever expect to be reunited with Carl. But, the great thing is that when we were together, for nearly twenty years, we lived with a vivid appreciation of how brief & precious life is. We never trivialized the meaning of death by pretending it was anything other than a final parting. Every single moment that we were alive & we were together was miraculous — not miraculous in the sense of inexplicable or supernatural. We knew we were beneficiaries of chance… That pure chance could be so generous & so kind… That we could find each other, as Carl wrote so beautifully in Cosmos, you know, in the vastness of space & the immensity of time… That we could be together for twenty years. That is something which sustains me & it’s much more meaningful…
The way he treated me & the way I treated him, the way we took care of each other & our family, while he lived. That is so much more important than the idea I will see him someday. I don’t think I’ll ever see Carl again. But I saw him. We saw each other. We found each other in the cosmos, and that was wonderful.“
- Ann Druyan, talking about her husband, Carl Sagan
Roger Ebert, here
(I’ve heard a similar quote before, which is often attributed to Mark Twain, but Ebert’s formulation of this thought is every bit as good, imo.)
[The idea for this was sparked by Noelle’s recent post.]
The concept of a soul is one that still crosses my mind every now and then. I think there’s some wisdom in the idea, but the religious version of the soul lumps together a lot of different things. In order to figure out the truth of the matter — and what “soul” means to those of us who don’t believe in the supernatural — it’s necessary to deconstruct the concept, breaking it down into its core components.